Do a simple experiment. Sit down, give yourself time based on a multiple of two. For example, for eight minutes talk to God, at one minute, switch to the other gender. If you started by talking to Heavenly Mother, turn in the second minute to Heavenly Father, but continue speaking. Turn again at each minute. Take another lot of eight minutes, start in conversing with God in a gendered role of Father or Mother for two minutes, and switch to the other Parental focus for sharing, being and receiving God, afterward. If you do, in eight minutes you will have, you will have spoken to Father God or Heavenly Father twice, two minutes each time, and Heavenly Mother twice, two minutes each time. Take the same 8 minutes and talk to God, with four minutes devoted to Heavenly Father and four minutes devoted to Heavenly Mother. You can't do this experiment by talking eight minutes alone to Heavenly Mother or Heavenly Father.
God, for My Part, I have to maintain some degree of consistency, in relating back and forth. If I do not, then I can hardly expect comprehension to be fully available at the start of relationship. However, every experience is built upon, and with that the repertoire of love growth, the knowledge of how "Heavenly Parent works" grows. So, love is real. God is true. God exists. God must relate. God is one. God cannot relate just as Father or just as Mother, Heavenly Parent is a more comprehensive modality for some things. The role of Heavenly Parent can promote equity, at times, better than the role of Mother God or Father God. So, the secret, in starting to understand God as a God of Masculinity and Femininity, in taking on, when or if or should I already have had, a role of Heavenly Parent, is to understand time and space, or time and dimensions.