The disparity of gender is everywhere as are other falsehoods. Our history is one of ups and downs, failure and success. Life goes on, and life demands love. You must be agents of love. If we want to rip ourselves from the past but still move forward with God, we have to move forward with Her, and ask Her of Her capacity. We must stop re-acting the past, but think more strongly on what God needs.
God wants everyone to succeed in true love. We are all at fault, at least collectively, but we are all not powerless. You are the child of God. You are accountable to God. If you can, offer a word of hope. Re-evaluate your faith. And when you have finished doing good deeds and fall on your face in sadness, remember God is watching, and I will respond with love, in love, and out of love. I am looking for a place to dwell, reside. You already know this. Search your soul and let me live in you.