There is not much value in Heavenly Father asking women to obey Him, when they have been doing that for centuries, and not knowing the Heart of Mother God. Women have to break out of the mold and set their bones in skin, not to Christ, or to love as the Father might have them express it, but to a full knowledge-base, of absolute love and value, where those very knowledge-based realities are informed constantly by an ongoing Heart with God in all things. Obedience is oneness in heart with the Father, with the Mother, with God. It is only when Oneness in Heart is established, that the free-flow of love allows for direction, instruction, or insistence.
I don't think it is fair for people to think I should be able to snap My fingers, but I do agree it is reasonable for people to feel it. Love requires the parent to do her or his best, and fight till the bitter end for human happiness in the family, their family. Women don't need muscles to be successful to bring peace - they need relationship with God, and to re-think what they have been taught. God needs Her children to obey. Fear comes in because people have been taught, in one form or another, to mistrust women, particularly around authority. Only women can defend God on this, protecting Her, allowing people to see that it is natural for a woman, even God to make decisions.