Deep self-reflection is digging down within oneself to understand the real substance of the truth and to verify it within oneself with our own experience. It is recognizing Me within their lives. When someone is open to Me, then he or she can open more to others around them. But no matter how much someone is proud of their achievement, their accomplishment, if they have not opened their heart to me, it becomes very external. The inner separation from God and the inner separation from one another causes people to be corrupt and selfish.
The Heavenly Kingdom is the place of God-centered equality. The only reason there is frustration, the result of the imbalance of man and woman, is this terrible gap of communication and the complete mix up of the right position with God, position not meaning external but in heart. Therefore, many children are born and raised and are so frustrated because deep within them they know what they need. Deep within their conscious minds, like a plant knows what it needs, they know what they need. But if that is denied, then there is disappointment, pain, and anger, and even suffering. But by the time people grow up, already they have many concepts, so like the pure, little baby, they no longer know what they need. All they know is that they feel angry, frustrated, and depressed and their mind is already confused. This is humanity to a great extent. That is why spiritual men and women are needed to guard humanity.