The family is the house of God and the family brings God into any relationship, whether it is the nuclear family or the community of larger levels identifying with God. What is the position of family? It is the position where all are free. To be free does not mean to be free from sin. To be free means to act with God, freely. So, she, a female in the family, can act with God freely. She is not prejudiced by another, but simply acting in conjunction with a fully functioning God. If I am a God of loss and grief, does it not stand to reason that I have not been free, not free to use the creation, or support structures after failed growth? God wants to relate to all members of the family. Whether mature or immature, a person needs an effective family. It is about setting up love in the house of God, a house which can only be given back to God from a human being because she or he has come to understand that God is a God of loneliness after creation, when God is not fully relating to humanity. Family is where I, As Creator, am able and capable to fully function.
Heavenly Mother is only free when the family is free. She is only able to secretly and openly relate to Her daughters when the house of God is in order. If the house is out of order, she must seclude her children to chambers of council, to give them courage and ability, even in the face of adversity. Once women are free, they have to liaise with God over the meaning of family, agree to work for love, and set themselves free by refraining to house the male motif as an ever present shadow on or upon their heart. The sunshine and shadow must come to the woman from God, whether as Parent, Mother, Father, friend, acquaintance, whether as an acquaintance of specialized gender or not. When all women in the family are healthy and happy, then they can participate, not from weakness, but with love. Love in God is obviously strong, but many women in time have hid their strength in love from fear of persecution, for to give that love outside of their chamber in the house of God was uncompromising painful.
The position of family can only come about when women are free. Women are the key to renewing all relationships, keeping freedom fully functioning, available for those who wish to breathe in and out the love of God. May you come to share your love with God, knowing that Whomever I Am, I Am surely trustworthy. Entrust your questions to God. The position of family is meant to be where love is amplified, complete, reflected, given, shared, understood, and one where God Herself/Himself is lifted up, not to be praised, but to experience life, love, joy, character, form, spirit, joy, yet again.